Hi all that read my blogs,
I never know who clicks and reads cause there are few comments. Anyway, its time to go back to work and a new year for my daughter, She has great intentions this year and says she realizes how much time has gone by and not much accomplished for her schooling. It may be that she is growning up and is maturing to a newer level of understanding. She wants change and help for school. We will see and hopefully this with be a great new start for her. The nice thing about school, each year is new and a fresh start after a good summer break helps. This year I would like to focus on a right start with helping my daughter or rather supporting her with routine, schedules, and good habits. I am of course, trying to do this for myself and therefore a role model for my daughter by my actions. I am trying to include her but, not always my agenda, is her's too. lol.
With a huge amount of new strength, you people that have been following me, will have to agree that really good positive stuff have happened for us, in comparison to my first joining adhd world. It's fun to reflect on my excuses and wows and to gratefully acknowledge our successes. September seems to feel like a new year for us since my work and school starts up after the summer break of rest and relaxation (it never works out to be enough, lol). Anyway, here I am, like some of you other members, with bells on my toes and good intentions.
I will do my deep breathing, slow down to observe my day and be present in my actions. That's a big chore for anyone to focus on. And mostly I will try to do my best to let my daughter do her life and offer support through my actions as a role model for her. Today, I like my plan and it seems to being a good thing for both of us. NO MORE RESCUES FOR MY LITTLE GIRL!!!!! She is working out her bagage at her pace and I'm giving her space to succeed. Its nice to say, I'm here if you really need me. Oh, we are working on the living from love and not fear aspect of life. cheers.