Posted: Jan. 16, 2010 - 1 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of
a pole which she carried across her neck.
>  One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and
always delivered a full portion of water.
> At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked
pot arrived only half full.
> For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home
only one and a half pots of water..
> Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.
> But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and
miserable that it could only do ha lf of what it had been made to do.
> After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to
the woman one day by the stream.
> 'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to
leak out all the way back to your house.'
> The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your
side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'
> 'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted
flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back,
you water them.'
> For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to
decorate the table.
>  Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty
to grace the house.'
> Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we
each have that make our lives together so very interesting and
rewarding.
>You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the
good in them.
 SO, to all of my cracked pot friends, have a great day and remember to
smell the flowers on your side of the path!

Posted: Jan. 15, 2010 - 1 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]

Just to let you know I didn't write this, I found it on a website of 'Jokes' - It was to dead on to just let it go by without sharing. Hope you enjoy! Cheers

This is how it develops:

I decide to water my garden.

As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car and decide my car needs washing.

As I start toward the garage, I notice that there is mail on the porch table that I brought up from the mailbox earlier.

I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys down on the table, put the junk mail in the garbage can under the table, and notice that the can is full. So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the garbage first.

But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox, when I take out the garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my checkbook off the table, and see that there is only 1 check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk where I find the can of Coke that I had been drinking.

I'm going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Coke aside so that I don't accidentally knock it over. I see that the Coke is getting warm, and I decide I should put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold. As I head toward the kitchen with the Coke, a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye--they need to be watered.

I set the Coke down on the counter, and I discover my reading glasses that I've been searching for all morning. I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers.

I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water and suddenly I spot the TV remote Someone left it on the kitchen table. I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I will be looking for the remote, but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs, but first I'll water the flowers. I pour some water in the flowers, but quite a bit of it spills on the floor. So, I set the remote back down on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then, I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do. At the end of the day:

----the car isn't washed,
----the bills aren't paid,
----there is a warm can of Coke sitting on the counter,
----the flowers don't have enough water,
----there is still only 1 check in my check book,
----I can't find the remote,
----I can't find my glasses,
----and I don't remember what I did with the car keys.

Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all day long, and I'm really tired.

I realize this is a serious problem, and I'll try to get some help for it, but first I'll check my e-mail.

 

Posted: Jan. 15, 2010 - 0 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
I was diagnosed in December 2009 after nearly 28 years of struggling with ADD-inattentive type 2 and up until that point I just thought I was dumb. lazy, and unmotivated. I don't know if you have this same feeling, but I am VERY motivated in that I WANT to do SO many things with my life, but just can't seem to muster up the courage to get up and do them and cant manage my time well enough to get them done! A lot of times I forget about some of the things I want to do until months down the road and I'm like "Oh yeah! Why didn't I ever do that like I wanted to before?" LOL I feel tired most of the time and get headaches and have tense muscles all the time. Too many thoughts and to-do lists flying around in my head as well as in my purse and on tables in my house, while I sit on my couch as you say "paralyzed" by my own thoughts! Sometimes I'll be walking through my house and just stop between rooms and thinking "what was I going to do?" and I'll start daydreaming and just standing there thinking about EVERYTHING!! It's like I can't snap out of it-I can't move, I have to think! lol Terrible! I feel as if my head is in the clouds all the time and I just want to come down to Earth with everyone else! lol Anyway, I found my miracle drug-it is Phentermine. I enrolled in college thinking I would just flunk out like I did in earlier years in school (i even dropped out of high school) and prayed that I would be able to learn this difficult college material I was facing. Coicidentally, I was just starting Phentermine for weight loss through a weight loss clinic nearby. I felt like John Travolta in that movie "Phenomenon" when that "light" hit him and he automatically like knew everything! That is how I felt in class! Amazing focus, I was on time!, I made straight A's (4.0 GPA) and even ended up with final averages in some classes of 102 and 105!!! Algebra was a breeze! Look at a problem one time that took most others forever to learn if they ever got it! I was completely floored when I found myself up at the board one afternoon tutoring most of my math class in the math lab at school! I had to stop and look around as everyone was talking and think to myself "am I actually teaching other people algebra?! Am I dreaming?!" Well, my body started getting used to Phentermine because I was on it for 4 months straight when before I had taken breaks of like one or two months in between my usual one or two months of being on the pills. So, now I'm on a break again and will be going back in a month or so. I've heard others say that this works, too, but as far as I know it is not prescribed as an ADD med yet. I wish more people would discover this and speak about it so that one day it might be. They say everything happens for a reason......guess all that weight I put on while I was pregnant was God's way of telling me that I had to sacrifice my usually skinny, in-shape body, for the use of my brain! LOL